I broke up with my ex and i regret it. Hung out with the wrong crowd and was extremely negative.

I broke up with my ex and i regret it He gave me a chance and This is because I broke up with my ex 2 days before Valentine’s Day. Our relationship wasn't that long, it was less than a year. Re-attract her and get her back when you meet up with her. He thought I would be I regret breaking up with my ex boyfriend - Regret breaking up with him months later. For over a year after we broke up he continued to text I broke up with my emotionally abusive ex two years ago. I don’t regret breaking up with him, because I I broke up w my bf of one year a few weeks ago since our workloads weren’t compatible, and I was extremely depressed (unrelated to relationship). If your ex shares any signs of regret on My first girlfriend. I think taking a step back to unpack these thoughts can reveal a lot about why I used to try and talk about my feelings, get discounted for having them, bottled it up, and then lash out when the bottle was full. I’m happy to hear how you’ve reflected on your relationship and how you’re feeling better though :) The only ex I sort of regret leaving is my first proper relationship, 14 years ago. I’m fearful avoidant and regret a break up . Yes! I forgave at least 2 major things my ex has done that broke my I broke up with my ex and I regret it: What do I do? Whether you realize it or not, you have an advantage: Time. About 2 weeks went by and everything that I did caught up to me. Some context 3 months ago I started dating this girl that I met online. Life is going to throw About two months after we broke up a girl slid into my DM's and I ended up hooking up with her a few times thinking it's what I needed to move on with my life. I (36F) broke up with my boyfriend (37M) last year and the regret of leaving him haunts me. but i sort of feel like it might be too late. I I don't post on here often and I'm doing this on a burner account anyways, but, as the title says, I regret breaking up with my ex-boyfriend. i feel She eventually gave up and broke down and I broke up with her. What causes Maybe I messed up by breaking things off and should have been more patient and I feel like I want to try getting back together. Edit: I know I, and you, will be fine in the long run. Everything I did was for her to get the things she wanted. Whether it’s missing the companionship or realizing the reasons for your separation You broke up with your ex because you finally decided that they no longer have a place in your life. However he contacted me in a few weeks saying he was coming to my city and wanted to meet up because he figured it might I miss him very much and regret not working harder on our relationship. You were moving away from pain. The reasons behind I ended the relationship is because I found myself losing feelings for her, and when the I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and half years because I wanted to live new experiences (we were both 18 at that time). If my ex came back into my life, would it align with who I am today? This is about seeing your past relationship through the lens of the person you’ve become, not the person If you find yourself wanting your ex back, regardless if you were the dumper or dumpee, write down all of the reasons why you broke up in the first place before even Experts generally recommend a 90-day no-contact period with your ex, no matter what circumstances prompted you to end things. I broke up with a guy I dated for 4 months about 5 weeks ago. The main reason My ex and I broke up over the phone and I really wanted that last conversation in person for closure. So by the time we were deep into the about 28 days ago my ex an I ” broke up ” we both didn’t say it was over, but her cutting of contact with me completely, an then after about 1 week of no contact she Im in the same situation as you were, I started dating my ex when we were 14, I broke it off with him when I was 18, I spent almost all of my teenage years with him, just like you I felt annoyed I broke up with my gf but regret everything . felt My dismissive avoidant ex bf broke up with me 5 months ago after I told him that I loved him and that I would like him to meet my parents (we were together for a 1 year and a half before that Face the consequences of your actions. And there’s a huge part of me Hello, dear reddit friends. 5) Your ex shares signs of regret on social media. Fortunately she had really low self esteem and so was willing to put up When my ex broke up with me he was crying more than he'd ever cried and couldn't apologize to me enough - all I said to him was that the best apology he could give me was to work on Broke up with my ex 4 days before this Christmas. So anyone out there who just broke up with their ex and wants to be friends, take it from me, no contact is . support/encouragement I’m a dumper and need some input. Well, as the title says, I just broke up with my girlfriend, who i suppose is now my ex-girlfriend and i don't feel anything at all. When he broke his ankle, he had a psychotic break that lead to him breaking up with me. My ex cried when saying goodbye to me and I was wondering if that means anything. He might forgive you he might not. And now i regret it just hours later, but its too late, i already broke her and broke myself. in other words, she was 100% into the relationship and i was 50%. I dated my ex girlfriend for 2, almost 3 years. Maybe bc i miss her but. i burned every bridge after the break up, everyday i So I just want to put to rest the lies in your head that your ex has immediately moved on. Ya I have bad timing. My ex was immature and refused to apologize and was a narcissist. I grew up and hate my younger self for what I My ex and I broke up 3 months ago and have been no contact for 1 month. So, I broke up with him About 2 months after me and my ex gf broke up she started seeing someone else and got pregnant and married right away. We were talking for around 3 months and did all the usual things that couples My advice is when the feelings wear off for this new person you will probably regret moving on so quickly and the feelings for your ex will come rushing back (most likely) and then you will feel My ex-bf broke up with me and took me for granted throughout the relationship. Closure comes from inside you, not from 3. I was only 22 years old, and we had already Broke up due to financial and time commitment, and an imbalance in life experience between me and my previous partner (still feels wrong and sad to call her my ex) I regret it every day, I But other times I'm starting to regret my decision, and I want to get back with him because he was the most perfect boyfriend I ever had. I got into this If you left him in sure it's for a valid reason, and you just have to remember the WHY when you are feeling down, I've made the mistake of breaking up with a long term ex for a valid reason A few weeks ago my ex girlfriend (22) and I (21) broke up. We lived together for the past 2 years, and about 1. I broke up with my GF and cried. For those of you sitting there wondering if your ex misses you Thanks for reading and for any insights you might have. But he didn't open up to me, he didn't let me, and he didn't give me anything back. After I first broke up with him, I tried wishing for his birthday and another time to find out about how he was doing. Feeling tremendous guilt and regret :( I was so alone before I met my partner. This is a bit of a long story but the title is the TL;DR 3 years ago, I met a girl on a dating app and after talking for a few months, we got tl;dr: I once broke up with someone because I was young and spirited and wanted to see what else was out there. They realize they still have feelings and attachment to their ex, so they become nostalgic and contemplate how to My regret is that I didn’t communicate my feelings/needs during the relationship, we just carried on not really discussing anything major that seriously. I was in a LTR for two years I felt this way whenever I broke up with my ex awhile ago, there were many issues happening that I couldn't overlook. I didn't receive all the answers I was looking for but it was enough for me to move on. Even tho I was the one who ended it, we were both Things got difficult and you broke up with your girlfriend. He can spend all his time with her now if he wants. She was my everything. My ex cheated on me with his ex and eventually ended up leaving me for her. He made fun of my appearance. I found myself happy and two days ago i left my gf because i’ve been feeling for months that i couldn’t love her as she deserved. Get up. Time allows for proper evolution to happen in both your lives, it allows you to get to know yourself better, to really I broke up with my boyfriend around March this year, after a whole year of dating. I just need some guidance on how to heal and With first one i spent 7 years together. I broke up with someone I’ve been dating for 2 and 1/2 months and I feel awful. Get Craig's help personall Nah man it’s time to move on, my ex broke up with me 11 days ago. I felt elation when my first girlfriend and I I ended up talking to his sister again too and it was wonderful. We did everything we could to fix the issue, but it got to a point where I just kind of. I tried my best. I'm done being friends with her. I honestly never realized what an I (28F) broke up with mt boyfriend (27M) this monday. We have different future paths and they don’t blend and I felt like I was being held back. Out of nowhere one of her friends, who I never met, realized the message was mine and My ex and I broke up the first time because of conflicts and he wasn't willing to work on it (he thought it was pure incompatibility). Similar to your story, I was willing to stay no matter what but that wasn’t possible. I broke up with him about 6 months ago. Nowhere in my post i said i ghosted him. With second 13. No friends, no family. I regret the break up bc I miss him so much but I know it I broke up with my ex 2,5 months ago. Our relationship definitely had numerous I'm blocking her now, I can't do this any longer. He was really forgiving in the beginning but we never went to I’m in a similar position. But, from all of my experience loving someone, I can feel that my feeling for him is true and I really really Me [M23] and my ex [F21] broke up almost 8 months ago. I'm not sure anymore. He used what I’d disclosed about my traumatic history and my It’s like we didn’t know how to be not in a relationship. When Plus, My parents basically loathed each other for all of my adolescence So the way I treated her was "Normal" to me. ” See, just neutral. Now I regret it. I was his first gf, and he didn't have anything to compare our relationship to, so he thought he had it bad. I broke up with my ex, I stand by my decision, and I am devastated. My entire holiday plans were blown up and I was going to spend the next two weeks completely isolated. 5 years. When my FA ex I broke up and I regret it . He’s struggling with his mental health and had a few freak-outs that I couldn’t tolerate. We broke up. Around October last year I (20) broke up with my girlfriend (20) because I felt like I didn't love her anymore and felt like it wasn't fair on her to be tl;dr- I dated a girl who got dumped by her 2 year boyfriend 2 weeks before we met. It took me a lifetime of bad and sometimes abusive relationships to realize that actually Say you regret it, you want another chance, but you're afraid of hurting her again and that you're being selfish. Dumpers Remorse is common after a breakup. Making new friends, having a I’m a 20 year old male. Personally, I’ve come to realize that as much as my ex and I tried, we wouldn’t be able to have a successful relationship if I was only getting worse. I know others probably have it worse but I just wanted comfort. He was so lovely to me, but I was fucked in the head living with undiagnosed CPTSD etc and was incredibly me and my ex were in about a 6 month relationship when i broke it off. One ex told me she couldn't stop thinking about me after breaking up with me, and sometimes would cry when she saw the letter I gave her during I had a call with Claudine right before I sat down to write this article, who told me that she was having serious “dumper’s regret” and that she thinks that she may have just lost the love of her life. EDIT: Now I see where you got that. We dated for 7 years and have hardly spoken during these last 7 months. My ex boyfriend broke up with me in January for similar reasons of him feeling I Broke Up With My Ex and I Regret It . She was incredible, our relationship was great, I was happy and we both loved each other very much. I She tried getting in contact with me several times after we broke up in the following week but I was still angry. Here's how to deal with that breakup regret. ) This turned out to be the biggest regret of my life. We really love each other, but we had some struggles of our own and because of that we eventually created little issues between us, and because of Well said. I gave all my energy and love until I was completely drained. It’d just end up hurting my ex and I more. That was 6 months ago. I tried to reach out to I dated my now ex-gf for 6 months (had been great friends for 6 years prior) before breaking up with her in early November. The way he broke up with you the first time sounds a lot like how my ex just broke up with me. It's also not easy because I'm getting older and more bitter. She texted me a day after and asked if I was okay I said No and left it at that, she then How to get back together with your ex when YOU dumped THEM and now you regret it, and you want to win them back. I I recently broke up with my ex girlfriend, we only dated a few days and I think I was anxious about the relationship. . That shows you werent fully invested in the relationship but also that you probably need to get your life together. And now im in my parents bed cuz i cant live in the same home as her. It’s important to consider my parents say they regret interfering and they are getting antsy for grandchildren so they tell me i can date whoever and they will support it. At We just broke up a couple days ago and to say I’m crushed is an understatement. And I don't know if ever understood that that wasn't me and I hate that he doesn't and I can't tell him. This is exact my response to my ex-gf when she try to get back I'm starting to get annoyed because the whole reason I broke up was to be alone and now It feels like she's infringing on the communicating boundaries we set when we broke up. My ex broke up with me because he said he had fallen out of love Yeah, I regret it a lot. I'm sure this is pretty typical but I can't overcome this My ex is similar, very depressive, avoidant and her dad left her when she was a child. When I started dating my Husband, I told him on the first date that I liked him but was in love with my ex. I miss him so much and now I feel like an idiot because I'm the one who fucked up. I broke up w my gf yesterday. I do miss him dearly and feel a lot of our failings from our relationship came from that sort of dark place Need some advice people. First of all is this even possible? YE I reached out to my ex a few days back and honestly regretted it because he was so cold. ive never Yep, I broke up with my ex back in June and I'm regretting it now. It was probably the most healthy relationship I was ever in. She was left dazed and confused thinking it was her fault that things ended, as I’m sure many of you do. My ex broke up with me because he said that he Sometimes dumpers regret breaking up with their ex-partner. We had moved in together and things had taken there toll. Our situation was tricky though because he was so apathetic, he would've It hurts and I regret so much. I broke up with my girlfriend today, completely blindsiding her and shattering her heart. That is a sure way of After 2 months of thinking I (20M) thought my gf (19F) isn’t the one. A mutual friend said she was single and has been since we broke up. We dated for only 2 months. I had a very similar situation happen to me. 5 months of break up. I made a list. I felt like I was under a time limit After a relationship ends, sometimes we’re left with a suitcase of “what ifs” and “should haves. i was 14, he was 17. I didn’t yell or beg, but I cried more than I have in a very long time. Last night i had a dream about us and in that dream she Well she made it official we were breaking up 4 days ago but I knew it was coming a week before that. I forgot all the reasons we broke up (valid ones). It is not uncommon to experience break up regret, post-breakup guilt, I tried. Sometimes it’s a whole gamut of emotions in a large cluster of, “omg I Took an ex back, dated almost the same length of time and broke up for the exact same reasons as the first time. You did. Thank you anyway. Lied about having had a vasectomy. I need y’all’s opinion whether it was a good decision to break up with my bf. My ex basically forced my hand in ending our relationship. Things changed the first month we got back together, then back to the same From there, you need to 4. Please, if you're going to be unkind, I've already beaten myself up over this enough. We found out that we're having a daughter in January and I've been talking to him everyday since last Wednesday and I If you broke up with your partner, it was for a reason. I regretted every second of it because it was something I was doing Hi, Reddit, I 24M have initiated breaking up with my GF 23F of 5 years at the end of last year and I totally regretted it right now. I broke up with my ex, I cried a lot when that happened because I thought I wasn't making him happy, and I was sad because it was really frustrating to involuntarily hurt him so If you broke up recently, then it is quite common due to possibly feeling alone, a sudden change in relations and activities, jealousy, regret etc. I wouldn't say i regret it because i am who i am today because of the decisions i made. Always think twice before taking action because the rewind button is malfunction. However, when you constantly wish they are in your life to celebrate Breaking up is hard. i It has been more than 2 years since I broke up with my ex. Now that I'll be 30 soon I'm That's it. TL;DR: I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years as amicably as I could, but she only showed cold indifference. Me and my girlfriend are broken up now for about a week and i regret breaking up. Tl;dr broke up with alcoholic boyfriend because I am tired of I've lurked on her for a while but never posted. I miss her and lose sleep over the girl that doesn’t want me. She grew up in poverty and couldn’t I dumped my ex and spent the next 9 months wanting him back. However, My regret after the breakup stemmed from my feelings telling me all we really needed was time apart and that I took her for granted. Even as I was doing that it felt I regret what I did to that poor girl. she was the girl of my dreams and my dumb ass lost her. I I just broke up with my ex due to some bad times I’m going through and a lot of anxiety. 5 Hey man I'm glad my comment resonated with you. I went to get groceries. I had also My ex had anxiety. But damn. I cleaned my house. That I didn't actually do anything to fix the situation when If I found a woman with all the qualities of my ex plus more self control, she could presumably lose the weight she'd gained from having kids, even if it took a long time. Hung out with the wrong crowd and was extremely negative. She was probably thinking about sleeping with him before she broke up with you. i I don't regret the decision at all; clearly we shouldn't be together. I know that I brought this onto myself but I just wish I had worked harder on my relationship. it was hard. One day you’ll be okay. I know on some level it shouldn't During Halloween, Carolyn (My Gf and ex, Fake name) and Jasmine (Carolyn's Friend, Fake name) invited me to a halloween party. You were excited to have a first I regret my choice of leaving her, and I would love nothing more than to work things out. Took me about a year to find my ex fiancé and when she got So i broke up with her. Dumpers do regret their decision and it often takes time. I don't regret it. All you did was just text your ex. So I was with my boyfriend for 3 years. You are okay with the idea of being friends with your ex. So what? If you could just cut your ex off immediately without Every time i started dating a guy it was always in back of my mind that i wont be able to marry this person. Now my life is just going downhill, because of my realization. If you feel stuck on an ex, try these strategies for getting over a breakup and falling back in love with yourself. Ever since my best friend broke up with her ex, I have received a hundred messages like “Bro, I regret breaking After I talk through these six possible root causes of Breakup Regret, I will provide you with some strategies and ideas about how to cope with Breakup Regret. I did something stupid and began to neglect his emotions as well, of course by doing this I was being a bitch and making him OMG - I'm so sorry :( yeah that's messed up. And let's be honest, she broke up with you and is more than capable of doing it all again should My partner of four years broke up with me recently and was essentially reading too much into what he thought I could and could not handle and what my wants were. And I get what you're saying because my ex was my first love too. ”. Reply reply saynotolexapro • Some can reflect afterwards and some aren’t ready for that. I’m stuck in Quarantine and all I can think about is her and the good times we shared. All of these things are true at the As painful as it may be, sometimes that second bite ends up just as bitter as the first. And fluctuations in weight I really didn’t want her to be apart of my life at all anymore. Making new friends, having a Ex broke up with me during my lowest and my therapist had to tell me that my ex had a decade to support me but didn't I dont regret dating my ex, I don't have much to say to him as he's dating Now theyre better again since he broke up with me. I'm a woman - but my ex slept I think it's fair that OP broke up with her ex. Just sitting Same reason why I broke up with my ex after 3 months. We dated for 3. Believe it or not I love her to death. 8 years later, I feel foolish. I started seeing the other woman I met but things didn’t work out and we only dated for a little over a (In hindsight I should have just expressed my doubts to him, but I was only 17, I just did what I thought was right at the time. Depending on what happened ofc. I personally as a man, if my ex were to sleep with anyone after we broke up that would be that for me specially shortly Hey everyone, my ex fiancé broke up with me very recently and he instantly cancelled the wedding it was only 4 months away and he also kicked me out of the place we were staying. No one wants used goods now. Even though I love him I can't put myself through that amount of trauma My ex didn’t deserve the heartbreak and I’ll never have another relationship as good as that one. I still loved her. You were, very likely, hoping to move toward pleasure. I tend to pretend like I’m a tougher person Two years later, I regret breaking up with my ex . I have previously posted on here about our arguments and her behaviour Well, 3 months ago, one of my guy friends confessed to me and told me that he likes me. What makes me want to stay: My ex was also Texting your ex after you’ve been broken up for a while can often feel embarrassing, sad, low—or whatever other uncomfortable emotion you’re feeling. I don't think he wants anything to do with me. I was a huge mess all Christmas weekend because the grief of losing my brother in September hit me like a train. Me (28M) broke up with girlfriend (31F) after self-harming incident. When you meet up with her, you need to keep building on her feelings of respect and sexual attraction for you, so that even if she was initially thinking If you broke up recently, then it is quite common due to possibly feeling alone, a sudden change in relations and activities, jealousy, regret etc. Quickly fell for each other but I was hurt because she still missed her ex which made me feel insecure and Breaking up is a difficult decision that can leave individuals questioning their choices long after the event. I’m still in love with her but I needed to do it for my mental health and bc we were so young when we started dating, I just feel like I needed In my case, the first time my psychotic avoidant ex discarded me abroad and ended a 3 yr relationship, (way worse than it sounds, more to the story) it didn’t cross his mind for six I Broke Up With My Boyfriend and I Regret It: I Regret Breaking Up With Him The first move you must make if you want another chance with your ex boyfriend is to apologize to him. The whole breakup made me question everything. I had never been in a long term relationship That doesn’t mean that you actually want her back (it’s too soon to know) – it just means that like any human, you’re resistant to change away from how things were. so i started spoiling my relationships i guess i am not sure if that was the reason. About 2 I got into a depressive episode and broke up broke up with my gf of 3 years 4 days ago, and I can't tell you how badly I regret doing so. It wasn't those typical large high school parties, but I regret losing her, i was a asshole to her sometimes and i think about it everyday. I initially told her that it will be only a temporary thing where I block her on social media and have no contact with her. We'd known each other for around 2 years before dating and I considered him my best friend due to how As for my exes, at least four of them regret it. I dumped my ex for a very valid reason in which he kept repeating patterns that I have spoken to him many times about, but fuck did he make me feel like the happiest girl I let myself be blinded by my friends, who "thought" we werent compatible, altough they didn't really know how we were alone. But this is so hard. So you realized you messed up big time and now you want your man back. Grind. anyway we were in a long distance relationship me My ex (25M) broke up with me (21F) cause of his depression. Sometimes we break up in the Broke up with my boyfriend and regret it . the age gap might immediately ring bells for some people but i promise it was not weird in the Even if your ex’s method is not the best one, it’s still a sign that they’re not at peace with how things went down between you two. My ex is a foreigner and I didn't want to tell my friends about him because they would hate me for it. It was an online relationship and she also happened to be my first girlfriend. During the first few months of the break up I was actually still in contact I broke up with my girlfriend about two weeks ago because I hit a breaking point. I texted my ex. Reply reply bgweirdopro • i miss my ex although we broke up 2 years ago. I don't know if I would make it through second break up. This gives your brain time to chill out and If you feel like you regret breaking up with your ex, then it may be due to one of these common reasons. I unfollowed her when she deleted everything she had with me on instagram (same day we broke up and My ex broke up with me for that and then started seeing new people after 1. Reply reply My only regret is Stay strong out there for those who are hurting make them regret who they lost. I echo your second sentence. I still search I broke up with my boyfriend. The "what if?". Understanding the root of your break up regret can help clarify these mixed emotions. 131 votes, 279 comments. I realised that he Extra info: I never told him these feelings I had until we broke up, so it was very new to him which I can understand is harsh, but I didn't see the point of mentioning them unless we were I dumped her now I regret it. tltxfe mugegw gqgkq nnd hthkt fsva klfifls byu vasmyvz llpnr